Have you ever been so angry at a mate you ‘screamed’ so hard at him/her to let out all your frustration? However, after the scream, you got even angrier for having to scream so hard? Well maybe it was not a scream and maybe it was not even someone you could potentially scream at toContinue reading “Growing your emotional intelligence; Respect”
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He was customized for the Annan’s’!
Clearly, the world’s confusion about standards makes me pause with the statement ‘I have the best…’. I’d like to think that for the person I’ve become and I’m continuing to grow into, God gave me exactly what I needed and still need! Daddy! His intellect is my favorite quality of his. I haven’t met aContinue reading “He was customized for the Annan’s’!”
The cool part about the ‘I’ of the INTJ spectrum;
Have you tried spending time with yourself lately? No, I do not mean avoiding people. I mean spending an alone time with ‘yours truly’ because you relish it! Also, alone is not equal to lonely; let’s get the definitions right. Being alone simply means being in a physical space where no other person is, ORContinue reading “The cool part about the ‘I’ of the INTJ spectrum;”
Intercepting an INTJ’s neuronal pathway- An Anecdotal Poem
Hash they said… and the louder my synapses chimed with exciting rigor. To seal the lips of my mouth, is to magnify to voices within. Kukua anthonyin Where are your emotions, they asked…. I answered, why do you choose to bypass your cortical activity? kukua anthonyin He said, I have come to reveal to youContinue reading “Intercepting an INTJ’s neuronal pathway- An Anecdotal Poem”
The Venusian INTJ
Dr John Gray, in his book ‘Men are from Mars, women are from Venus’, must have totally missed a sub-cohort of the Venusian species or just maybe, not all women are from Venus. There is also the possibility that the INTJs might have been exiled from Venus- that would certainly be plausible. I’ve been tryingContinue reading “The Venusian INTJ”
Appeal for Truth-Seekers
It’s not you or me. It’s us It’s not your angle or my angle. It’s our angle I’ve had the pleasure of working in multiple ‘teams’ and I’ve often been intentional about knowing people for myself; for me, this completely changes my perspective! I have grown to learn that every person is ‘Loveable’ and beforeContinue reading “Appeal for Truth-Seekers”
Low expectations and a low excitement threshold; a seemingly direct and proportional relationship.
I take full responsibility for my actions I take full responsibility for the consequences thereof Yet, each day, I’m reminded of the numerous theories of things that may predict the brightness of my day. I’m reminded that like a door needs a custom key, so do I need to be chiseled and refined for theContinue reading “Low expectations and a low excitement threshold; a seemingly direct and proportional relationship.”
A plethora of complaints with few note-takers; what 2020 revealed.
I can not remember the last time I wrote a new year’s resolution but I know it is something people generally look forward to at the beginning of each year. I’d like to think that for most people, the idea is to pin down particular projects for a year (which is awesome by the way),Continue reading “A plethora of complaints with few note-takers; what 2020 revealed.”
The irrationality of jealousy; focusing on the wrong variable.
Ms X is looking at a reflection of herself in a mirror. She is wearing a white dress and a high heel. Ms Zee comes to stand right next to her, wearing the dark version of the same dress but there’s something about Zee’s dress that stands out and it doesn’t seem to have anythingContinue reading “The irrationality of jealousy; focusing on the wrong variable.”
Two steps back, one step forward; a propelling paradox?
I would rather bathe in the sun Where my cheeks need no cheer to inflate I would rather not feel the pain of a thorn For is pain not just a reminder of an internal mishap? But life is full of contrasts. How does one perceive a shadow if it is not outlined by aContinue reading “Two steps back, one step forward; a propelling paradox?”