Tag Archives: identity

Let’s address the ‘…..ISM’s


TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN Standing out doesn’t take much! If we were all simply ourselves in crowded spaces, each of us would stand out and society would resemble a conglomerate of an immiscible harmonious melody. However, in a world where one’s identity seems to be tragically validated by a like button, conformism is oftenContinue reading “Let’s address the ‘…..ISM’s”

The internal variable 


“In a world where we are surrounded by an extant amount of stimuli, it would seem rather unnatural to turn one’s attention to that which often passively interprets it.” Kukua Anthonyin Last year, I switched up my yearly ‘around the birthday clock’ goal. Unlike previous years where I’d focused mainly on strength and flexibility workouts, IContinue reading “The internal variable “

11k Meters Mid Air


A Reflective State of mind Within the cerebral HQ Twenty Four, We’ve had a SOMEWHAT good camaraderie.  Where memories fail, you’ve indeed closed the gap. I write to you on my way home! And you may ask, is home not where I am? I guess time and change of circumstances reveals what’s truly hidden within!Continue reading “11k Meters Mid Air”

Are we becoming what we HATE?


As I sat down waiting for the show to begin, they chattered among themselves. It was as if I was surrounded by one personality type, multiplied by 5. They understood each other too well and were so consumed by their conversation that they forgot there was one person there who didn’t belong. A stranger isContinue reading “Are we becoming what we HATE?”

Emotional turmoil; refocus to vision 20/20


“If I were to liken an individual to a ray of light, I would say that in this refractory world, an image may be perceived differently depending on the lens of the perceiver! Hence, to not truly behold one’s identity puts one at risk of morphing into the images created through other lenses! “ KukuaContinue reading “Emotional turmoil; refocus to vision 20/20”

Still on the topic of social media: Keeping it real


Are we losing our humanity- Social media post interpretation caution: A timeline that always elicits excitement does not mean the account holder is PRETENDING ! I see people make blanket statements about how people who appear to be happy are not really happy!! I think that’s just nonsensical. You just can’t know anyone’s intent justContinue reading “Still on the topic of social media: Keeping it real”

How your expectations of others define you; a knee jerk reaction


According to the Oxford dictionary, the word definition implies ‘what is meant by a word, context, action, etc…’. A definition is also intended to communicate something that may not be directly expressed! Hence, how you define yourself may be explicit or insinuated through your actions. How you define yourself, however, is unlikely to be seenContinue reading “How your expectations of others define you; a knee jerk reaction”

You may be viewing rejection the wrong way!


I’ve found that there are two main reasons why people get rejected! You are either being devalued by the wrong people or undervalued by the right people! If it’s the former, rejoice and sing your hallelujahs! You’ve probably dodged a bullet! However, if it is the latter, then there might be room for personal growth!Continue reading “You may be viewing rejection the wrong way!”

A tsp of forgiveness, a TBS of grace and a liter of love


I was recently caught up in a quagmire, where I struggled to process an emotion! From my previous blogs, you will know that I am big on the virtues forgiveness and love. I’d like to think that grace is the link between forgiveness and love. To show unmerited favor (grace), one would need to possessContinue reading “A tsp of forgiveness, a TBS of grace and a liter of love”